Creating Healthy Client Relationships

Professional Practice Series:  Creating Healthy Client Relationships

A heart centred and illuminated mind approach to professional holistic practice.

Facilitator:  Lorena Colarusso RP

Host:  Breakthrough Centre in Brampton

Contact Breakthrough Centre to register  Fee: $155 plus HST

Date: Sunday, October 30, 2016   Timeframe: 10:00 am to 5:00 pm

Creating Healthy Client Relationships is the first in a series of professional practice development workshops designed for Energy Practitioners, Coaches, Holistic and Intuitive Counsellors and Therapists.

Healthy Relationships have the power to help us develop our full potential.  They provide the mirror through which we can define ourselves.  Through healthy relationships, we can develop secure attachments, build trust, self-identity and esteem.   In the holistic client-practitioner relationship, powerful bonds can evolve. The relationship itself can become a healing and nourishing experience within the context of healthy boundaries.

In this workshop, you will gain an understanding of both the healing potential and boundary challenges that can develop in the client-practitioner relationship.   You will gain an understanding of the developmental dynamics of boundaries energetic, physical, psycho-spiritual and emotional.  You will also learn skills to identify when boundaries are moving towards dysfunction in the client-practitioner experience.

Workshop Topics

A complete agenda is provided upon registration.

  1. Relationship Developmental Dynamics: moving from symbiosis and Dependence to Independence and Interdependence. Participants will gain an understanding of the stages of developmental maturation, how these cycles affect healthy relationships and communication and interpersonal tools for handling stuck dynamics. You will learn a multi-dimensional definition of healthy relationships.
  2. Exploring the Inner Caretaker and how it affects your self-care and client relationships. Participants will connect with their Inner Caretaker through energetic and dialogue processes to determine the origin of this part of them and to understand how it engages with their client.
  3. The importance of Healthy Boundaries in the creation of healthy relationships. Participants will gain an understanding of the types of boundaries and how they define us, protect us.  Also, boundary violations towards ourselves and others are learned along with the spiritual, psychological, emotional and physical challenges they create.  Pathways to develop healthy boundaries will be learned.
  4. Energy Dynamics and how it can affect both the client and practitioner energetically in both supportive and draining ways. Participants will learn about types of energetic attachment bonds that can develop including Chords, attachments bonds, secondary trauma energy.  Tools and pathways to maintain clear chakras, healthy aura and luminous energy field, emotional clearing and energetic boundaries.  The Practitioner as a role model and spiritual leader demonstrating healthy energetics is explored.

The workshop will be a combination of lecture, experiential demos, shamanic journeys, energetic and personal awareness exercises.

About your Facilitator

Lorena Colarusso is a Registered Psychotherapist, Coach and Integrative Energy Practitioner.  Her Alchemy Pathways, www.alchemypathways.com  wellness services focus on holistic coaching and training services.

Lorena brings a diverse skill set to her professional services and personal development practices. Her specialised spiritual psychotherapy education and professional expertise provide a full spectrum of support for her clients.  Her therapy education is complemented and deepened through her being a Certified Professional Coach, Certified Emotional Clearing Facilitator, Voice Dialogue Facilitator, Traumatic Incident Reduction Facilitator and Master NLP Practitioner & Certified Hypnotherapist.  With advanced training in various Energy Medicine and Shamanic therapies, she is committed to using her expertise to the greatest healing and benefit of her clients.

Since 2005, she has been a therapist, coach, energy medicine practitioner and educator at her wellness business, Alchemy Holistic Counselling. Her coaching, public education, facilitation and consulting experience span decades. Her life experience includes over 30 years of executive leadership positions in non-profit organisations.  As a member of the faculty at Transformational Arts College, she has taught professional psychotherapy courses since 2008.

To find out more about her psychotherapy services, visit www.lorenacolarusso.com

Understanding Integrative NLP: Opening to Spirit

NLP:  Opening to Spirit through bringing choice to Mind and Body by Lorena Colarussso MNLP

For further information on Skype or In Person Professional NLP Mentoring or Individual Therapy sessions, please contact Lorena Colarusso alchemyholistics@gmail.com, NLP Master Practitioner.

NLP is the study of the structure of subjective human experience. Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioners are trained in an accelerated learning strategy to detect and understand how individuals structure their thinking, their patterns of being in the world, their perceptions.  It is a profound therapy that focuses on how language and experiences has affected our minds, bodies, our inner parts, our values and beliefs.  It explores how our thoughts, speech, actions and connections create our personal reality. Through freeing ourselves from limiting events and beliefs, we can open up to our spiritual selves in a more authentic way.

NLP Facilitation can shift beliefs and patterns that no longer serve clients in present day. The therapeutic goals are set by the client bringing beliefs, emotions, and traumas, patterns that are limiting their life and preventing them from accessing their full inner resources. Trained NLP Practitioners become facilitators for clients who call upon them to use NLP skills of changing, transforming subjective reality when it no longer serves a person.   The process is embedded in respect for each person’s model of the world and an acknowledgement that all are valid.  The goal of NLP is to provide the opportunity for choice in our mind, body and spirit.  Those who take the path of NLP are often curious and even fascinated by our human perceptual experience.  NLP therapeutic questions are about, how we do what we do? how we think?, how we learn?, how we experience our emotions?  Specifically the focus is on how we structure reality individually in our brains, our minds and our bodies. Tools and processes of NLP and Trance are used to access and shift limiting imprints and beliefs. .

NLP Origins NLP began in the early 1970’s with many contributors, from many fields.  The developers were originally Richard Bandler, John Grinder. Three key therapists that influenced NLP were Fritz Perls, originator of Gestalt Therapy, Virginia Satir, a key force with Family Systems Therapy and Milton Erickson, Clinical Hypnotherapist. Other insights came from Gregory Bateson, anthropologist who contributed the cybernetics and communications theory.  Many over the decades have added to the knowledge base of NLP.

Outcome Clarification NLP is well known in the coaching world for its tools of contrast and clarification, outcome setting and aligning our goals and values with all levels of our being in order to create motivation for action.  The primary foundation is that human beings have all the resources they need within them.  Experiences of trauma and critical messages create through our unique physiology of thinking, body imprinting, limiting beliefs and stored images that prevent us from reaching our full potential.

Language Patterns NLP Practitioners are trained in detecting the gatekeepers of our perceptions, how we distort, delete, generalize.  In other therapies these are known as defenses and denial.  A key training in NLP is to be able to listen to and identify the patterns in linguistic structure that are used to create the distortions, deletions and generalizations. Metaphysical NLP works with the conscious, super conscious and subconscious minds.   NLP can create shifts of perception both in present time and with past traumatic or limiting imprints.  These shifts can facilitate transformations, evolutions of perceptions that have been frozen in time.

NLP Practitioners are trained to gather information, through listening to language in communication which can reveal what level of thinking a person is aligned with. These communication levels were developed by Gregory Bateson and are called Logical Levels. We communicate and think through the five senses at the level of Environment, Behaviour, Capabilities, Values/Beliefs, Identity, and Mission. Moving beyond these logical levels, we can communicate through energetic and metaphysical dimensions. Most NLP focuses on the five sensory model.

Communication is the Response that you received.  One of the Presuppositions of NLP is this statement about communication. NLP Practitioners are trained to be effective communicators, to experience communication with sensory acuity. Sensory Acuity means listening both to language and physiology. Effective communication begins in the space of trust and rapport. Rapport is developing an attunement, a mirroring and resonance between the two people communicating. While Rapport is sometimes judged as contrived, it actually requires a stepping aside of ego and a mind, body, spirit openness to the other person for it to truly be created.

Sensory Experiencing of the World NLP Practitioners are often fascinated by how individuals experience the world. Determining a person’s representational system is a part of NLP. We all use our five senses to experience, what we see, hear, feel, taste, smell and added to this model is what we can experience through the transpersonal and intuit energetically. Each one of us develops a unique way of remembering the images and experiences internally through these senses. It is said that 40% of us prefer images, 40% of us prefer feelings, taste and smell and 20% prefer sound or self-talk. It is possible, due to HEF, Human Energy Field surrounding each of us, that a new percentage could be added with respect to the transpersonal and energetic preference. NLP Practitioners are trained to identify a person’s representational systems for the purpose of self-awareness, learning styles and improved communications. NLP Practitioners also are trained to work with the nuances within those representational systems, using sub modalities, strategies, mapping and anchoring to facilitate change for a person who wants to have more control over how they think and feel.

NLP Timeline Therapy is known for its ability to work with perceptions of events in our personal history and personal stories.  It is a process of mapping, healing and re-imprinting our perceptions of events that stop us from our full potential. Timeline Therapy reconnects us to our inner resources and focuses on connecting our mind and spirit to our destiny and future instead of our past.  In NLP language these perspectives are known as Perceptual Positions and Future Pacing. Through NLP and Trance we can unveil, transform, integrate and leverage our existing internal resources and the resources of our ancestral timeline.

NLP Reframing is a process that can shift your perception of a situation by changing its meaning. Reframing is key therapeutic strategy focused on separation of the intention from the behaviour. Optimists reframe their experiences by focusing on the positive intention and Pessimists reframe their experience by focusing on the negative. The process is cognitive strengthening tool allowing a person to dissociate from an emotional relationship to a problem situation or state and accessing a different pattern of thinking.

NLP Motivation and Influence. Influence, a word that is often misunderstood with respect to NLP tools and strategies. As humans we are constantly in the flow of influence, either being influenced by others, by our filters of perception; or in the process of influencing the perceptions of others that we come in contact with. By understanding our primary subjective filters of motivation and attitude, we can access choice as how to use these filters to become conscious co-creators in all dimensions of our life values.

Contact Lorena Colarusso alchemyholistics@gmail.com, Master NLP Practitioner for more information on NLP therapeutic tools for personal development and therapy. Sessions can be scheduled on Skype or in Person. Lorena certified as an NLP Master Practitioner with Deanna Sager M.Sc, OAMFT, Canadian Association of NLP Practitioners and NLP Metaphysical Practitioner, Dr. William Horton, Psy. D., National Federation of NLP.  Additional trainings include Dr. Michael Hall, Ph.D., Transformational, Meta Coaching., Robert Dilts, NLP University, Anthony Robbins, Unleash the Power Within.

Inner Selves: a pathway to our authentic self

Expanding Consciousness through Dialoguing with Sub-personalities

By Lorena Colarusso R.I.H.R.  Psycho-Spiritual Therapist

Dialoguing with sub-personalities is a psycho-spiritual tool through which we can evolve our self-awareness of both our conscious inner selves and the parts we have repressed through our life journey. From a multitude of archetypal energies available to form our personality, individually we develop 5 to 7 primary selves or sub-personalities.  Our sub-personalities evolve from an integration of environmental, family, social, spiritual and psychological forces rooted in our childhood and soul’s journey.  Forces which originally intended to protect and defend us through the development of sub-personalities may in present time prevent us from making conscious choices.  They may keep us frozen in patterns that no longer serve us in present time.   Through Sub-personality Dialoguing, we can be facilitated to connect energetically, spiritually, emotionally, psychologically with our inner selves or parts.

Our psyche is made up of a variety of sub-personalities or inner voices that can drive us to behaviours that are out of our control when we are unconscious to that energy activated within us.  Dialoguing with Sub-personalities enables us to become aware of when a particular self has flooded us, clouded our lens of perception and limited our scope of awareness and choices.

We interact in the world and relationships through these inner lenses of selves. Originally, as children, these inner parts develop to protect our vulnerability.  As humans we all must protect our vulnerability to survive as children.  Through Dialoguing with Sub-personalities we expand our awareness of how we protect ourselves and identify the parts that emerged in our psyche. We also become aware of those selves, parts, aspects that we had to repress and suppress in order to adapt and survive.  As we expand consciousness of our sub-personalities and disowned or repressed parts, we bring choice into our lives.  That is, conscious choice in our decisions, feelings and behaviours instead of being driven unconsciously.  The more developed and self-aware we become of the complexity of our personality and its interplay in relationships through our inner selves or parts; the easier it becomes for us to experience peace within ourselves and intimacy in relationship.

Our unconscious mind is the ocean in which our disowned parts float and play havoc with our emotions and relationships when they remain submerged and out of awareness.  As we explore and heal both these amazing inner primary selves and understand their origins and positive intention, we can through acceptance and witness experience transformation.  We can also access and transform the energy of our disowned selves with guidance, skill and protection. This powerful work can bring balance to inner polarizations, healing to our child selves, clearing to our split or frozen emotions.  Dialoguing with Sub-personalities is a means of exploring our inner consciousness while opening up to access our full potential and connecting us to the authentic essence at the core of who we are.

Lorena Colarusso teaches Dialoguing with the Sub-personalities in the Transformatinal Arts College, Spiritual Psychotherapy Training Program.

Transpersonal Pathways to Inner Balance and Authentic Relationships